Daddy’s Day- NYC edition
With out him, you would not have the title of “Mom”. The moment he becomes the father of your child or children, he oozes a certain kind of sexiness that you’ve never seen. He is the tie that binds between you and your child/children.
The day I saw my husband hold our son Zac after he was born and the first time I saw him changing a diaper, I knew I was married to the right man. While I was recovering from my C-section after giving birth, he figured out how to do a perfect swaddle and could change a diaper like he was a pro. I love how his voice could calm our son when he is fussy or snap him out of a tantrum. As Zac grew he often did the “cool and fun” things with his Dad. There were many moments where he and Zac would wrestle and roll on the floor and giggle. They would bring Taekwondo class home to the living room even though I didn’t approve. I worried that he’d be too rough or Zac would get hurt and he’d easily calm my fears by just saying “relax, we are just having fun”. It wasn’t much but it worked for me and Zac would often repeat the same thing immediately after so I know he was enjoying himself and did not want the fun to end. There are also times where my husband had a different idea of what’s appropriate for our son such as introducing fruit loops as part a of nourishing breakfast. Zac appreciated this more than I did.
In all this, I’m glad I’ve learned to let go more and I realize that Zac needs his Dad’s adventurous spirit to balance his over-cautiousness Mom.
In the spirit of Father’s day, I’ve come up with some ideas for NYC Dads to help let them know how special they are to us. I know my husband will appreciate these things. The best part of these choice is that he can redeem almost anytime throughout the year, even when it’s not Father’s day.
Chelsea Piers Golf Club
The Golf Club www.chelseapiers.com/gcNYGolf.htm has added two full-swing simulators – the latest in virtual golf technology and a valuable teaching tool for the Golf Academy. Choose from 51 Championship Courses and experience the challenge and enjoyment of playing the world’s greatest golf courses at any time. I know that he is simply will be thrilled if I get him a gift card for simulator playing lessons or 1 hour Private Lesson with PGA Pro.
Bateaux New York
Take him out on a date night for the most up-close views of New York’s world-renowned skyline separated only by glass windows and water. An elegant experience with outstanding service but don’t forget to book the babysitter. www.bateauxnewyork.com
Tickets to a Yankees game or the US Open
You absolutely can’t go wrong with this one. Enough said. www.stubhub.com
Lastly, what better way to show my appreciation on this Father’s day by letting him to sleep in late in AM, taking him out to a nice breakfast at the Boat House, www.thecentralparkhouse.com and surrender to his wish for watching “golf-athon’ for the rest of the afternoon (without me complaining).
Happy Father’s Day to all Dads, but especially to my husband. Because of his role as a father, I’ve become a better mother.




